Grr

1月24日

So, my phone rang last night at 10:10 and who was it? Dan...unfortunately he'd had a very, very bad day. Which I was in a good mood instantly put me into a bad mood. I feel like a bitch because I ended our conversation with, "If you're going to be in a pissy mood tomorrow, don't call me."...Grrr...It's so frustrating though..When he's having a bad day, I can't do anything to help, or can I, anyone have any thoughts?

Please help. I obviously can't give him a hug....if he were a girl all I'd have to do is send him chocolate...at least that would put me in a better mood...

<Sigh>...What to do ...They have a support group for his unit, maybe I'll try and contact them and try to get some advice...I know he won't be re-enlisting when all of this is over. So that's good. At least I think so..I am in "aww" of the women/men who have a loved one over there for a second, third, etc. time. Somedays, I don't think we're going to make it through this one...I know we will, but I still have days where I don't think we will...anyway..enough of my drama ...I'm going to get going, I have to go to classes. I have my painting class today, so hopefully that will relax me and put me in a better mood. **44 days until Dan's pass (That's a month and a half)**

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JEANNE撰寫：

Hang in there, Annie, and let your love for him be the most important thing right now. I know you can do it.
Love, Nana

1 月 28 日

maggie 撰寫：

Annie
Here's a suggestion for when Dan calls after a bad day. Be still; let him vent (remember, you are the only one he CAN currently vent to) and when he's done, just smile (he'll hear it in your voice) and ask him if he feels better after getting it off of his chest and into your own loving heart, where you can 'tend' to it. I'm PRETTY sure you will both feel better and it will (BONUS) be a relationship growth experience.... Or, I COULD be totally full of... it! LOL. I'm so thrilled that he has the occasion to CALL you and you can hear his voice; good, bad, or whatever. In a way, this separation kinda reminds me of the abyssmally sad one Paul and I endured. Good days and Bad Days and everything in between! I have seen the love between you two and there is MORE than enough to carry you through!
May God continue to Bless You Both and Watch over you,
love ya,
MR

1 月 25 日

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